DeKALB – The NIU Autism Caregiver Group hosted its first birthday bash of the month from 5 p.m. to 6 p.m. Thursday on the second floor of the DeKalb Public Library.
The NIU Autism Caregiver Group hosts birthday bashes for children with autism whose birthdays fall during the month, allowing them to enjoy a sensory-friendly celebration. The group has been hosting these monthly birthday bashes since October 2025.
NIU Research Administrator Maria “Rai” Nihei and Associate Professor in the School of Allied Health and Communication Disorders Allison Gladfelter began this program to support children with autism and promote an inclusive environment.
As a parent of a child with autism, Nihei has personally witnessed how traditional birthday parties can be challenging for her son due to frequent transitions and sensory demands.
“When we go to birthdays for other children, it’s really hard because there’s a lot more ‘we’re going to do this now, we’re going to do that now,’” Nihei said. “My son has a really hard time separating from a chosen activity to a non-chosen activity. It can be really hard for him to disengage and go to another.”
Attending traditional birthday parties can be loud for children who experience heightened sensory sensitivities, which can lead to sensory overload. The purpose of these birthday bashes is to offer a celebration that is quieter and calmer for children.
The NIU Autism Caregiver Group believes it is essential for all children to experience diverse ways of playing, interacting and building relationships that positively impact all individuals.
Associate Professor in the School of Allied Health and Communication Disorders Milijana Buac, expressed that though the bashes are designed for children with autism, they are open to all.
“There is no requirement; anyone is welcome to come. Given that the group is focused on autism, we are geared toward children who are autistic, but anyone can attend,” Buac said.
The activities at the bashes include materials all children normally enjoy, while still being designed to support a specific group.
“We have lots of fidgets around, kinetic sand and water toys available. We have a small tent, so if a child wants a lower light or more snuggly, they can step away if they want to,” Gladfelter said.
Anna Marti, a Sycamore mother of five, believes it is important for children with autism to have a quiet space for them to hang out and try new things.
“It’s good to have a calm environment where there is not a lot of sensory input going on and people that understand and know about autism that are there to help facilitate,” Marti said. There are several in-person events offered throughout the year, which can be found on the NIU Autism Caregiver website.
