My fellow veterans of NIU, we‘ve all had those encounters with people who like to complain about things that are happening in the Middle East.

Everyone seems to think that they know what the war in Iraq is all about or why we are fighting in Afghanistan. Often they come to certain conclusions that are simple fallacies that the media has implanted in their minds, and they come about expressing their opinions rather harshly. I want to give you all some insight that I have developed when it comes to dealing with those people and ways to avoid allowing them to control how you feel.

First and foremost, do not allow them to change the sense of pride and accomplishment that you have developed from your service in the military. Whether you served for four years or forty, putting on the uniform every day, willing to put yourself in harm’s way is a way of life and many cannot even begin to fathom what it is like.

If you ever come across a person who believes you should not be proud, or says you should be ashamed of the things you did in the service of your country, remember this: You were willing to do those things so they could sit back home and develop their blind opinions of what you did and who you are. Never allow them to take away pride you truly deserve.

Many people have their own opinions on the war and many people have their opinions on the men and women who are fighting it. They’ll never fully understand what it is like to have to put your life on the line so that others may live. They’ll never fully understand that whether or not you support our reasons for being in the Middle East, you went there because it was your duty. Anyone who has never strapped up their boots and put on the uniform ever will know what it is like.

If or when you’re put into a situation with someone who has been misinformed, or, sadly, despises you for your service, I want you to keep in mind that you did what you did so he or she wouldn’t have to.

I had an experience when I was home from Iraq where a woman accused me of being a “pawn for Satan” and a “baby killer.” She told me I was going to hell. I told her thank you for your opinion. Remember this one thing: Even after she insulted me, my family and my Corps, I was still willing to die for her.

My brothers and sisters in arms, never allow someone to take away the pride you have for your service to this country. Never allow someone to make you feel ashamed you wore the uniform or you fought the battles. You are a unique breed of warriors and you did what you did to keep them from having to. You kept them safe, and for that you truly are all heros.