Don’t use ‘gay’ as discriminating term
October 30, 2008
Everyday slang constantly evolves. Text phrases like “LOL” or “CU L8R” almost replace modern English. But some common words now carry negative connotations and discriminate against groups of people.
One such example is the word “gay.”
Today, the word is heavily abused, especially by youth, to describe something inadequate, unfavorable or silly.
“‘Gay’ underwent evolution like any other word,” said Meredith Frederich, Ph.D English student.
“When you trace the word, it never had a negative connotation. Even though using the word ‘gay’ in society means an increased awareness of homosexuality in the public consciousness, those who say the word maliciously are not being funny or useful.”
Almost a month has passed since National Coming Out Day on Oct. 11, but that doesn’t mean the campaign for gay rights should not continue year round.
Television commercials have tried to stop the use of derogatory phrases such as “that’s so gay.” Such commercials are part of the Think Before You Speak campaign sponsored by a nonprofit organization in New York called the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, or GLSEN. The commercials feature celebrities like comedian Wanda Sykes or musician Hilary Duff promoting homosexuality tolerance.
According to The Think Before You Speak Web site, the campaign aims to stop the use of derogatory language toward homosexuals and provide a healthier environment for homosexual youths. These commercials, though geared at teenagers, should be considered by all ages.
“These days, the word ‘gay’ has been devalued to mean stupid,” said Kristen Myers, associate professor of sociology. “People that use the term negatively don’t realize that their intent is not as important as the effect.”
Myers also described how in a social setting, those that use the word “gay” in a negative light are just as guilty as those who do not speak up against it.
“Some people call everything gay,” Myers said. “People in a group that don’t use ‘gay’ in a bad light are afraid to challenge it. They just go with the flow so as not rock the boat.”
It’s hard for people to break their habit of using derogatory language, but using the word “gay” in the wrong sense makes those who do it look uneducated and insecure.
Next time you’re tempted to call anything “gay,” think of the ramifications of what you’re saying. Do your part to eliminate the hateful usage of a perfectly harmless word.