Students ‘Speak Out’ on sexual assault

By Lydia Roy

In honor of Sexual Assault Awareness Month, Safe Passage and Northern Illinois University’s Health Enhancement held the third annual “Speak Out Against Sexual Violence,” in the Holmes Student Center’s Diversions Lounge.

About 65 individuals attended the event and were given blue ribbons for taking a stand against sexual violence.

“This event is held to raise awareness about sexual abuse and to give survivors an opportunity to speak out about their experiences,” said Monique Heilemeier, a counselor at Safe Passage.

This year’s ceremony held the theme, “Strength and diversity; survivors speak out on their healing journey,” and was evident in the speakers’ messages as well as the decor of the lounge. Bordering the room were handmade tees, with messages of hope such as, “There is a time for silence and a time to speak. Use your voice.”

The evening began with a formal “Speak Out” ceremony, with a keynote speech by Jesse Pierce, a trainer for the Illinois Coalition Against Sexual Assault. Pierce’s message focused on peoples’ power to take responsibility for their actions and recognizing the power they hold.

“It is important for concerned individuals to take steps towards ending sexual violence,” he said. “The greatest revolutions begin in individuals.”

Following the keynote address was a short message from Erica Barnes, an HIV prevention specialist for DeKalb County. She focused on the importance of getting tested and taking care of the body, especially if one has been assaulted.

After these messages, two victims of sexual assault were able to share their inspiring stories and shed light on their individual and diverse processes of healing.

This time of the ceremony had a great effect on the members of the audience.

“The stories were really emotional. I teared up after hearing what everyone had to say,” said Jessi Stapp, a freshman speech pathology major and prospective volunteer at Safe Passage.

After the emotional “Speak Out” ceremony, participants were able to attend a silent march through campus.

“The silent march is an opportunity to gain awareness in the community,” Heilemeier said.

A candle light vigil to honor sexual assault victims ensued in King Memorial Commons, followed by a “reflection prayer” meant to help individuals capture the power necessary for breaking abusive cycles.

The evening was seemingly inspirational to all in attendance and shed light on the real issue of sexual abuse and assault, as well as where individuals can go to receive help.

“It’s good that we now know of a place where we can go, especially since we’re women,” said Sarah Manlum, a freshman nursing major.